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August 21, 2012

The Great American Road Trip - Missoula

Continued from The Great American Road Trip - Driving to Missoula via Walla Walla.

Missoula
Missoula was not my idea, it was my husband's. The idea of living through a cold, Montana winter so, so far from everywhere else, was not terribly appealing to my logical mind, but at the same time, I will let you in on a little known secret, ever since I was in third grade and I hear "Montana" I get the most thrilling feeling of freedom and beauty. It's as if its remote location is a pass to do whatever you want and no one will care because there is so much space and freedom for everyone, yet, there are enough people that if you want to, you can call them together and there you have a community. But this is not at all based on any facts I know whatsoever and I didn't even set foot in the state of Montana until about twelve years ago and even then, my limited experience of Montana includes only a long drive across the state and a cold evening walking the entire length of downtown Bozeman with a vagabonding Aussie.

Our hostess in Missoula is Lyndsay, a transplant over a decade ago from Akron, Ohio and her boyfriend who is at least from Montana, Billings, to be exact. He is very nice, but I can't quite understand her. She is a very slight thing who rents out the master bedroom of her very small home on a very modest street. She has three huge, barreling, barking dogs, one of which is Lena, who likes to play with Poppy, despite a very large size advantage. Lyndsay has large brown eyes and when I ask a question about Missoula, she looks completely offended, until she answers with emphatic friendliness. I can't tell if she hates me or wants to be my friend. People have told me that I am hard to read and I wonder if this is how they feel when they can't quite figure me out. That thought does not sit well with me (note to self: work on being more accurately expressive) and I decide to give Lyndsay the benefit of the doubt, she is just a hard to read, friendly person.
Poppy and Lena

I like the idea of staying in a residential community rather than in a hotel/motel, it gives you a better idea of what it might be like to live there. The previous night, I learned about the river trail, a park trail system that runs along the Clark Fork River, the river that runs through downtown Missoula. I awoke early with Poppy and took her for a "barefoot" run/walk along the trail. When I say "barefoot" I mean my Vibram FiveFingers shoes, the "barefoot" running shoes that I have been acclimating to over that last month. Other than a few sprints with the dog across the park, this is my first real attempt to run in them. It is a beautiful morning and we meet several friendly dog owners who allow their dogs to play with Poppy (good for Poppy, not great for keeping my heart rate elevated). The trail goes through a tunnel to a nice riverside park which I admire for about 30 seconds before a herd of shirtless, young runners burst from the tunnel and stampede past us. We continue on along the river, with obscured views of downtown, the air is cool and dry.
Morning Run in Missoula

Missoula is a small city in a flat valley (my observation) created by five different mountain ranges, which cause it to have some of the mildest winters in Montana (something I read). It seems that several mountains on the east and north appear to rise right from the edge of town, in one long, sweeping carpet of dry, golden grassland.
Hills rise behind Missoula
Missoula and the Clark Fork River
Poppy, Paul and I walked downtown for a late breakfast/lunch at Justin's Hob Nob. We waited for a table outside and munched on a Montana burger (mediocre) and banana bread french toast (good).
Sitting outside of Justin's Hob Nob
Afterwards we walked up and down the streets of downtown Missoula, checking out the various businesses. I bought a card reader for my cameras at the photography store and learned that Missoula is home to a photography school. At a bookstore I asked the owner if she had any contemporary books by Montanan writers, and after an uncomfortable search, I came away with two that seemed fitting for me, Rurally Screwed by Jessie Knadler (who I learned was going to be in Missoula the following week) and Why I Came West by Rick Bass. I asked the bookstore owner about her thoughts on Missoula and I come to find out she isn't even from Montana, she is from Gettysburg, Pennsylvania, not too terribly far away from where I grew up (depending on the context). She didn't seem overly excited about Montana and warned me that it is very expensive to fly in and out of Missoula.
Walking in downtown Missoula
It was starting to get really hot out and I noticed I walked in any tiny bit of shade I could find. Paul stopped to check out an Aikido dojo, the owner was sisters with the owner of the dojo in Santa Cruz, apparently. Then I sat outside a coffee shop, under an umbrella talking to a couple about Montana while Paul went in search of a haircut. The couple, whose names I have forgotten, maybe Jack and Jill, are from Helena where they are teachers and own some property in Missoula where they will eventually retire. She is from Great Falls, Montana and he is from Duluth, Minnesota and he ran in the Boston Marathon twice. They love Missoula and told us it would be a lovely place to live, but we should bring a job with us. Hmm..., there doesn't seem to be any larger companies here, which is a stark contrast to tiny little Hood River, Oregon who is the home to Full Sail Brewing Company, Tofurky and Dakine.
Sitting outside the coffee shop
We walked back to our room along the river trail, trying to coax Poppy into the shallow waters with balls and sticks. She seemed a bit more brave then yesterday, but still very timid and afraid of the water.
This water is a little intimidating to Poppy.
Poppy dipped a couple of paws in the creek.
Later in the afternoon we drove around outside town, going west, then northwest, then east, driving back to the ends of the roads, where pine trees started to sprout up. We admired some of the homes and picked up a few flyers for properties for sale. Nothing was really appealing to me. It just seemed too dry.
Dry landscape around Missoula

The road toward the pine covered mountains.
The end of the road, in the forest.
An intriguing gravel road outside of Missoula.
A typical neighborhood outside of Missoula.
In the early evening we walked back into town to Caras Park, which sits between the downtown businesses and the river on a stout little hill. There was a rock band playing on stage and dozens of food carts and booths set up. Paul and I took turns going for food and beer. It was at the tent to buy a beer, that I met Annie, where she was working. She is a University of Montana student and her dream is to one day go to San Francisco.
On our way to Caras Park
The food trucks and booths at Caras Park.
Annie
A tattoo, only in Montana?
We watched the sun set behind us and in the waters of the river was a fly fisherman. This place has a nice community feel, a lot of people were out for a Thursday evening with their dogs and kids or friends. It is a town that has a lot to offer, which is good since it is so far from everywhere else and so far, I really like the people here. But it seems so arid. Could I live here? Could Missoula be my next home?
The sun begins to set in Caras Park.
Sunset
Fly fishing next to the park.

August 11, 2012

The Great American Road Trip - Exploring Hood River

Continued from Driving to Hood River, Oregon.

I stepped out of our motel in Hood River, which was settled cozily between Interstate 84 and the Columbia River Gorge. If you have never been to the Columbia River Gorge National Scenic Area, I highly recommend it. There are mossy forests, stunning scenic views of the gorge, waterfalls, and some amazing hiking. So anyway, I stepped out of the motel room to take Poppy for a jog. The sun was warming up and there was a cool breeze. Wow, it was really breezy. Actually, I think it is downright windy. But I have heard the kitesurfing is the king of sports here, so I guess its to be expected.
The Columbia River Gorge, view from near our motel.

After the jog, Paul and I head downtown to the Dog River Cafe where I heard they served Stumptown Coffee, another recommendation of mine, if you find yourself in the greater Portland area.
Dog River Cafe
The highlights of our morning include: watching the windsurfers at the waterfront park and trying to get Poppy to fetch a stick in the river, hiking six blocks of stairs built into the hillsides above downtown in the residential neighborhoods, eating bland and overly-stuffed-with-lettuce tacos downtown, ordering freshly made juice from the Juice Brothers cart while talking to a local about Hood River as well as the guy Matt, the juice guy, and watching Tibetan monks create a sand mandala at the library.

Downtown

View of Downtown with the Columbia River in the distance.

The Waterfront Park

Another View of Downtown and the neighborhoods above.
A view of Downtown as we climb the hill above town.
Matt, the Juice Guy, from Juice Brothers.
Tibetan Monks

After all that excitement, we decide to drive around the surrounding rural area. The Hood River Valley is rolling green with orchards and vineyards. The back roads are winding, hilly and fun to drive. After meandering to the end of the paved road near the top of a mountain, we made our way along the fruit loop and wine loop and stop at Apple Valley Country Store along the Hood River where I sample and purchase some Huckleberry and Marionberry jam.
Hood River Valley with a faint view of Mount Hood.

Poppy, enjoying the countryside from the car window.

A fun, hilly country road.

The Hood River Valley

A view of Mount Adams in Washington.
Another hilly road in the rural Hood River Valley.
After a Paul and Poppy nap back at the motel, Paul and I head out for an early dinner. We go to the Trillium Cafe, which I hear is a low-key sort of local place with simple food. We order beer and food and a large, bald, middle aged man sits down next to me. We start to talk to him and learn he is from Sacramento and is in Hood River for a month to learn to teach yoga. Interesting. He continues to talk and I politely listen until I start to overhear the women in her early thirties sitting next to Paul telling him about having all kinds of exciting sexual encounters with multiple men at the Cannes Film Festival in France this past spring. Okay, what the hell is going on? Meet Vita.
Vita
Vita is from Vancouver, Washington. She mentored a group of film students at the Cannes Film Festival and decided to take advantage of every single opportunity that came her way in Cannes. It sounded like an adventure in celebrities, exquisite and lavish parties, lots and lots of booze, debauchery, and basically having sex or at least making out with many, many people. She continued to tell us the sad tales of her broken heart love stories, which included a poet from Milwaukee who had enough of her three dogs. She lamented about the only available bachelors in the small town where she is living with her parents are the 18-year old high school quarterback and the mid-fifties former child molester. Hence, she is Hood River.
Chris
In the midst of these thrilling tales, we meet Matt, the juice guy, again and he joins our conversation, reiterating that Hood River is a really cool place. Then comes in Chris, who says he is from Seattle but also owns a condo in Huntington Beach, is a chiropractor, has a better voice than Layne Staley, plays in a band (who he probably thinks is better than Alice in Chains) is recently divorced and is hanging out in Hood River with some friends. Naturally, Vita and Chris end up hooking up outside, where I will save you the description of what I saw when we stopped to say goodbye. I did manage to talk to both bartenders, both from Portland, who both said that Hood River is really the greatest place on earth. Well, we'll see.






August 08, 2012

The Great American Road Trip

I am in a 14-year old purple Honda Civic hatchback with a brand new clutch, driving with the sun beating on me across the hot, parched Sacramento Valley with my husband, an eight-month old puppy and a car packed for a month of living on the road. We are on a quest. We are on a journey. We are on a Great American Road Trip.

We are lucky, in the United States, to have such a vast and varied landscape. There are sandy beaches, rocky sea cliffs, deserts, rainforest, old mountains, new mountains, plains, canyons, caves, rolling green hills, giant ancient trees, old-time cacti, volcanoes and swamps, we have so many things to explore and experience just in the continental United States and so far, the list has only including natural wonders. There is a whole other perspective of a place when it comes to the people and what the people have built there, past and present and future. People make homes out of these places. They establish a community. Sometimes they love it, sometimes they don't; staying in a place for a reasons such as family, jobs, friends, culture, schools, natural beauty, climate, status, or recreation.

I have been asking myself, where is my place in this world? When I travel people ask me where I am from and I usually say, "I am from Pennsylvania but I live in San Francisco." because I can not bear the thought of saying I am "from" San Francisco. When I first moved to California and I experienced the first six weeks of non-stop sunshine of the summer months, I thought I would never leave. But the sunshine continued, for months while the world around me began to dry and brown and shrivel and crack under a coat of hot dust. Then there is San Francisco, where I have been for six years. When it is nice out, it is magical, for four hours in the middle of the day, while carrying around the jacket that you will need to wear 365 days a year. The rest of the time, it is damp and foggy and windy and cold and you wonder why anyone would want to live in a place where you need to wear ear warmers and gloves while walking the dog in August. But there is more to this place then just weather, some that I would love to leave and some that I would like to keep.

Well why not Pennsylvania then? I have family and friends there and I think I understand the people. Also, there is nothing like driving on a two lane country road through the rolling green hills of horse farm country or trail running across the grassy fields and quiet, hilly forests where your mind can finally relax and the other things at work in this world can whisper in your ear. So, why not there? Maybe it is because I left there for some reason and I found a little more of me somewhere else, or did I? Was a piece of me missing in Pennsylvania? Or maybe it is because I keep thinking that there is another place, where I will roll into town and breath in the air and look around me and smile at the people and know that in no other place where will I feel as much Me as I do here. So then, where is that place?

That is why I am baking in the sun in the Sacramento Valley, while my husband takes a snooze and the puppy lodges herself under my seat. We are on our way across the United States to try and discover that one place where we can finally feel Home. After much research, we have selected several places where we think we might like. In between, we are going to work in some sightseeing and time with family and friends. We only have a tentative plan and about 30 days. Who knows?

Here is the list of tentative stops:
  1. Hood River, OR
  2. Missoula, MT
  3. Bozeman, MT
  4. Jackson, WY
  5. Boulder, CO
  6. Somewhere in Iowa
  7. Somewhere further east of Iowa
  8. Pittsburgh, PA
  9. Syracuse, NY
  10. Providence, RI
  11. Hartford, CT
  12. Landenberg, PA
  13. Frederick, MD
  14. Lynchburg, VA
  15. Asheville, NC
  16. Somewhere between North Carolina and Texas
  17. Dallas, TX
  18. Austin, TX
  19. Somewhere in West Texas
  20. Somewhere in New Mexico
  21. Tucson, AZ
  22. Maybe somewhere in Southern California
But who knows? Maybe we will change it, add to it, subtract.



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